Heading to a Butlin’s Weekender with Don’t Tell Mama? Whether it’s your first time or you’re a seasoned weekender regular, a little planning goes a long way. From pool parties to late-night dancefloors and our iconic costume party, here’s everything you’ll want to have packed so you can focus on what really matters — having the best weekend of your life.

Outfits for Every Moment

This is not a one-outfit kind of weekend. You’ll be moving from daytime activities to poolside lounging and straight into big nights out, so pack a few different looks to cover every vibe.

Think casual daytime outfits, something comfy for chilled mornings, and at least one show-stopping party look for the evenings. And of course, don’t forget your costume party outfit. This year’s theme is Glitter & Glam, so sequins, sparkle and statement pieces are very much encouraged.

A light jacket or hoodie is also handy for late-night food runs or trips between venues.

Swimwear & Pool Party Must-Haves

The pool parties are a major highlight of the weekend, so make sure you’re ready to dive straight in. Bring at least one swimsuit (two if you like options), flip flops or sliders, and a small bag for your towel and room key.

Shoes That Can Survive the Weekend

There’s a lot of dancing involved, so choose your footwear wisely. Your main party shoes should look great but also be comfortable enough to last all night. A backup pair is always a good idea, especially for the later hours.

Trainers or comfy shoes are perfect for daytime exploring around the resort.

Toiletries & Your Recovery Kit

After full days of partying, a little self-care goes a long way. Alongside your usual toiletries, it’s worth packing a few lifesavers like painkillers, blister plasters, face wipes and deodorant.

A hydrating face mask or eye patches are optional, but highly recommended for looking fresh the next day.

Fancy Dress Finishing Touches

If you’re going all-in for the costume party, don’t forget the details. Accessories, wigs, makeup and glitter can completely transform a look, and lash glue is essential if you’re bringing the drama.

Glitter & Glam is all about confidence, sparkle and personality — the more extra, the better.

Tech, Travel & Practical Bits

It’s easy to forget the basics in the excitement. Make sure you’ve packed your phone charger, a power bank, your ID, booking confirmation and any wristbands or tickets you’ve been sent.

A small crossbody bag or bum bag is ideal for keeping everything safe while you dance.

We can’t wait to welcome you to the Don’t Tell Mama Weekender and see all your incredible looks, energy and party spirit come to life at Butlin’s. Whether you’re coming for the shows, the pool parties, the costume nights or the late-night dancing, it’s shaping up to be an unforgettable weekend. And if you haven’t grabbed your tickets yet, now’s the time — book now to avoid missing out on one of the biggest LGBTQ+ weekends of the year.